Avoid these mistakes when with your lady

GIVING DIRECTIONS 
Women know what they want to do in bed. Do not push her. If she is not responding even after 20 minutes of foreplay, she probably doesn't want to do it. So cut it out. 

ASKING FOR PERMISSION 
Women like a man who takes charge and has smooth moves. If you keep asking 'Shall we make some sexy time?' you'll come across as a wimp. Assess her mood and the situation, use the fine art of seduction and dive in. 

SELFISHNESS 
There's a reason sexexperts stress on foreplay - women need a lot of physical affection before they are ready to get into the sack. If you repeatedly put your satisfaction before hers, she might call it a night with a book in bed. 

BEING BLATANT 
Most women know when they want to get intimate with a man. Gentle persuasion, like a deep kiss, may make her change her mind, but don't keep hinting at it as soon as you get home. And definitely don't keep refilling her glass of wine and nodding towards the bed through dinner. 

GRABBING 
Nobody wants to make out with a groping school boy. Move with some finesse. Chart a mental route and follow it with soft touches and gentle kisses. 

TAKING A CALL 
Don't even think of picking up the phone. No, don't even surreptitiously sneak a peek at the screen to see who's calling. It would be good manners to shut off the phone completely once you know which way your evening is heading. You don't want to talk to your boss in the middle of getting in on, or worse, your mother. 

FRISKY SOUNDTRACK 
Ambience is the key to a good time. But if the strains of Hit Me Baby One More Time fill the air as the lights go dim, you aren't going to get anywhere. Anything too peppy or teeny-boppish (Britney Spears, Miley Cyrus), too obvious (Bheege Honth Tere...) or too girly (You're The One) isn't going to cut it either. Settle for some classics – Something Stupid or My Funny Valentine. Heavy metal should not be allowed anywhere near the bedroom.

Read more: Avoid these mistakes when with your lady - The Times of India http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life-style/relationships/man-woman/Avoid-these-mistakes-when-with-your-lady/articleshow/5027022.cms#ixzz15SI25tMZ